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Currently i am dating a guy whom just will not keep my consciousness, perhaps not for an instant. I do believe of him on a regular basis. He is pretty unique.

Currently i am dating a guy whom just will not keep my consciousness, perhaps not for an instant. I do believe of him on a regular basis. He is pretty unique.

Help! I am dropping for a fat guy!

I love this person a complete lot, however the poundage is really a turnoff.

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Cary Tennis

27, 2006 2:02PM (UTC july)

Currently i am dating a person whom simply will not keep my awareness, perhaps maybe maybe not for a minute. I believe of him on a regular basis. He is pretty unique.

My issue is this: This excellent guy with who i have provided some amazing moments and do share a connection that is phenomenal. He is obese. He is not only away from form or perhaps a hike and a swim far from fit, he is fat.

I have produced conscious work to appear it is, all of the time past it(“it” being my own stupid, shallow, superficial, counterproductive reaction to the weight), but there. During sex, he is conscious, very good, wonderful — we enjoy genuine chemistry — but even though the lights are out I find it hard to navigate their flesh. I am a person that is smallish; it really is burdensome for me to breeze around a guy using what little leg i am offered, never ever mind a guy the dimensions of one. 5 guys.

Worse yet is we worry being truly a selfish enthusiast, him the way I would ordinarily with a slimmer man because I don’t fantasize pleasing. I am intimidated, daunted and generally unprepared for many tasks.

I don’t know how to handle it. It is a turnoff. And worst of most, area of the explanation it really is a turnoff is with a head-turner when the lights are on that I see myself. I have for ages been with striking males — perhaps perhaps not pretty guys, but guys who’d that quality; most likely, it’s that quality which turns my mind within the first place. And also this guy simply does not light my fire by doing so. I am interested in almost every thing about him but their size. Therefore he does not light my fire, and does not feed my ego within the ongoing business of strangers. We hate myself also for admitting it; it is simply therefore trivial.